New Mother

Sound Number 35

Description of Sound

Created to release the stress fears and anxieties associated with being a New Mother or a Female Parent.  Especially in these days of “blended” families a person may take on the role of being a “Mother” figure without ever having given birth.

The new Mother sounds address the issues and patterns of concern and anxiety which are experienced by many “new parents”, and which may be held within the cellular structure of the body.

These gentle sounds release these stored levels of anxiety and fears, replacing them with a positive sense of well being and calmness. It is interesting t note that they often present during a practitioner assessment of sounds suitable for that client both male and female  and can be related to issues of new businesses or venture where one is “birthing a new idea or venture.

*** Available individually or as a part of the New Parent Pack

***Also available as New Father, and included in the New Parent Pack

Sound Length 6.02 minutes

 

How this sound came about

The New Mother sounds were created to assist a young client who suddenly became a “Mother” to a three year old small girl.

My client just eighteen years of age and her partner a few years older received a phone call one morning to tell them that the child protection agency would be dropping off her partner’s child from a previous relationship later that day.

The child was being removed from her mother for lack of care, and being placed in her father’s temporary custody.

My client, just a few months into a relationship, was suddenly presented with a small girl to not only care for but also to “Mother” and was at a loss. In many instances little more than a child herself,   she not only had to care for the physical needs of a child she had never met, but also to provide a level of bonding with, connection to and love for that child.

Now this is an extreme set of circumstances, however it made me aware of how many people suddenly become “parents”.

My late husband, who did not have children of his own took on 5 children who were not his some 30 years ago and was very much and still is “Dad” to them all despite his passing in 1992.

I have 4 “extra” children from a long term relationship after may husband passed away, and in this instance it was a relationship with an old friend, so these  children had already been a part of my life for many years and I have gone from being Aunty Sheila to Aunty Mum, and eventually Mum over the years.

Other instances of  a woman giving birth and due to the birth process eg caesarean section having no feeling of connection or even a bond with the baby, or a new father who has felt disconnected from the whole pregnancy and birth processes as in many cultures it is seen as “women’s stuff”.

This thought then gave rise to the New Father sounds.

Comment from Susan - Excellent sound for a new mother for a child, circumstance, situation or business.  I play this sound fairly frequently for clients with new projects.  And just for the record - it is not limited to women only.  Also good if you are learning how or wanting to nurture yourself - women (myself included) are notorious for putting others before themselves, sometimes we all need a little mothering, especially for ourselves.

 

Availability of this sound

Available on Sounds from Source Academy Membership site or Available individually as a take home CD program  or as a part of the New Parent Pack

***Also available as New Father, and included in the New Parent Pack

Combinations of use with other sounds

New Father, Just Pregnant, Stress Free Pregnancy, Just Born, Bonding with Baby, Birth Trauma, Retained Memories, Anxiety, Releasing Limitations, Releasing Blockages, Freedom





 

ABUNDANCE SOUNDS

 

I had a couple of really interesting occurrences after the “Abundance” sounds were played. 

Two weeks later I received a gift of $500.  Three weeks after this I was presented with $5000. 

My bank account is a lot healthier but I have also experienced abundance in other forms.

I feel an immense sense of gratitude and appreciation for the experiences that life presents

and for the wonderful people in my life.

 

 

MOVEMENT SOUNDS

 

I have had a drivers licence for 10 years and the feeling of anxiety that I experience

whenever I drive has been with me for the entire time I’ve been driving.  In fact, I had put

off getting my drivers licence for years because of this very fear.

 

After Sheila played the “Movement” sounds for me I found that the feelings of anxiety

and trepidation that I usually feel when I get into a car were completely absent. 

On the same evening, I had gotten myself completely lost whilst driving. 

The feelings of anxiety and fear that would normally have presented in this situation weren’t there at all.

 

 

COMMUNICATION SOUNDS

 

Most people describe me as introverted and a little stand-offish when they first meet me. 

I dislike drawing attention to myself and find public speaking extremely confronting. 

Whilst I’ve generally received positive comments about presentations that I’ve conducted,

 the discomfort and fear I experience have not abated. 

 

A few weeks ago Sheila played the “Communication” sounds for me. 

Two weeks later I was approached to be interviewed for a promotional

 DVD for a community agency that I work for.  I happily agreed to participate.

 

The feedback I received from my supervisor and the film crew was really positive. 

Whilst I experienced a little nervousness at the beginning of the day, this quickly

shifted and I felt comfortable about speaking and being taped.  When my

supervisor spoke about having a presentation evening to view the DVD I didn’t feel phased about that either.

 

The ‘Communication’ sound have achieved more than improving my communication

skills and increasing my comfort in being in group situations.  I feel more confident

and at peace with myself, and my interactions, whether with friends or strangers,

seem to be easier and more relaxed.  I feel a lot more connected to other people and to life in general 

 

Sheila has a depth of knowledge that is truly impressive.  

Her practical experience and life experience combined with her caring approach

and sense of humility provide an optimal environment for facilitating transformation.

I have no hesitation in recommending Sheila to friends and family as the results

I’ve personally experienced have been life changing. 

 

Lillian C.

 

 

My daughter was bullied at school in kindy - which affected her forming friendships

plus her personality changed from sweet and outgoing to more introverted and

she sort of had a ‘wall’ around her when meeting people - she also wouldn’t listen to

what was being said and became quite stubborn. Since Sheila has played the children’s behaviour  and communication sounds for her, she has become calmer, much, much, louder and happier and is returning to her old sweet self. 

Plus, she had an invitation to a birthday party last weekend!!

Thank you, I am amazed that something so simple can have such a great effect.

 

Susan M.

 

 

Since I have been listening to Sheila’s sounds with specific purpose, I have been feeling far clearer in my mind about my personal action and dealings, business relationships and expected outcomes.

 

Mark S.

 

 

“After spending 6 months and $20,000 on physical therapy and treatments

for injuries sustained from a car accident that were never healed, 2 hours and

$200 later with Sheila Kennedy and I was able to play sports again after 5 years.

I highly recommend Sheila to anyone who wants results above all else.”

 

Dan

Company Director

 

 

Sheila’s healing sounds have changed my life. We all have memories of

our past, some great and some not so great.

 

Working at a sub-conscious level I had done a lot of healing myself, however

there was a piece of my past I could not forget.  I had forgiven but no

matter how much I tried to move on I found myself always recalling this

memory.

 

When I discussed this with Sheila she played the Retain Memory sounds, and

to my amazement and relief this negative memory has been erased.

 

Healing, forgiving and letting go of negative experiences enables us all to

take our learning and move forward.

 

Sheilas sounds work at an even deeper level, erasing memories that can be

attached to the past. Sometimes we believe that holding onto these memories

is a form of protection, however all we are really doing is blocking the

real inner self from shinning.

 

Thank-you Sheila, now I am able to shine from the inside again.

 

Debbie C

 

 

I am writing to thank you very much for the work you have done on my family and I.

Especially on my daughter Jaimee. When Jaimee came to you she was really

struggling with her reading and school work in general. It has now been nearly three months and her concentration and reading has improved considerably. We have also noticed huge improvements in her energy levels and general well being.

This has had a huge impact on my family relationships and my general outlook on life.

Once again I would like to thank you for all your help and

I will be recommending you to all my friends.

 

 

Gavin W.

Melbourne

 

Dear Sheila,

Just a short note to express my gratitude to you for taking the

time to try to make a difference in my life. For travelling to see me, to encourage me,

to show me that beautiful warmth that you emit. Its hard to say meaningful things,

the words that come to mind usually find themselves falling short of the feelings

that I’d like to share and the things I’d like to say, but I want you to know that

“thanks” is one emotion that I take seriously and that it flows directly from my heart.

 

Thank You, 

From My Heart to Yours

 

Max R.