Bonding with Baby Sound Number 81 Description of sound “Doesn’t every Mother bond with her baby”? I have been asked, and “why would you want sounds for that”? As a mother of 5 of my own children, as well as 4 extra’s rather than “step children” I am very aware that our relationship with our children is different in each case. Many mother’s due to prolonged birth trauma, and elective surgery etc often eel disconnected from their new baby, and even at times resentful of the child. Fathers too often have difficultly bonding” with this new little “person” in their lives. These gentle sounds are especially suitable for blended and adoptive families and work to establish the connection between the child / children and its parent or parents. Sound Length 6.39 minutes
How this sound came about I have worked a good deal with new parents, as well as being a parent to both my own five children and the numerous ‘extra’ children in my life. Many times I was aware of the levels of ‘disconnection’ between the new parent and their child, this disconnection could be from things as simple as a stressful or unplanned pregnancy, through to a difficult or in many instances caesarean birth. We all bond differently and individually with our children, and they with us. My son commenting on his youngest daughter just a week old a few days ago, informed me that ‘she liked him more than her mother, as she went to sleep on his chest every time he picked her up if she was crying’, and that she didn’t do that for her mother. My daughter in law confirmed this and commented that she ‘looks more like her father also’ than does their previous child. One of my older children many years ago spoke to me about his younger brother mentioned above with the comment “Chriss really loves you doesnt he” and when I reminded him that all of my children love me he replied ’Yes of course we do, but Chriss, theres just some thing different, he really loves you’. Chriss was my child that should never have been, Doctor’s recommended a therapeutic abortion at 7 months, and he struggled through his early life just to stay alive. He is now almost 33, with children of his own and yes, we do have a special bond. Comment from Susan - Sometimes mothers do find it difficult to bond with their babies, through no fault of their own and boy - do we beat ourselves up over it or what. Life doesn't always run to the cosy patterns that we expect or would like. This sound wil help you relax and allow yourself to bond with your baby - remember each of your children is different and each bonding is different. I find that a lot of people beat themselves up unnecessarily over the fact that they may bond more with one child than another - there may be lots of reasons, but here's one. If you accept that you exist in other dimensions or have had past lives and so on, sometimes the reason for bonding seemingly more with one child is simply because you have more familiarity with them - or in other words - you have met before many, many times. For others - this may be the beginning of a tremendous relationship. Accept what you feel, its not wrong, its just a reflection of what is happening now. This CD will help ease the pathway to bonding more with your child. I use this CD a lot for business people, if you have a business, bonding with it may be a good idea, this will enable you to view the business from another perspective and may help with insights as to what is good for yourself and your business.
Availability of this sound Available through The Healing Sounds Academy membership site or as a take home CD program as well as a part of the New Parents pack. Combinations of use with other sounds Balance, Meridian, Meridian Memory Blockages, Genetic Memory, Genetic Blueprint, Practitioner Intention Statements, Freedom, Unworthiness, Deserving, Self Acceptance, Trust and Faith, Acceptance, Birth Trauma, Abandonment, Abuse, Accepting Love
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ABUNDANCE SOUNDS
I had a couple of really interesting occurrences after the “Abundance” sounds were played.
Two weeks later I received a gift of $500. Three weeks after this I was presented with $5000.
My bank account is a lot healthier but I have also experienced abundance in other forms.
I feel an immense sense of gratitude and appreciation for the experiences that life presents
and for the wonderful people in my life.
MOVEMENT SOUNDS
I have had a drivers licence for 10 years and the feeling of anxiety that I experience
whenever I drive has been with me for the entire time I’ve been driving. In fact, I had put
off getting my drivers licence for years because of this very fear.
After Sheila played the “Movement” sounds for me I found that the feelings of anxiety
and trepidation that I usually feel when I get into a car were completely absent.
On the same evening, I had gotten myself completely lost whilst driving.
The feelings of anxiety and fear that would normally have presented in this situation weren’t there at all.
COMMUNICATION SOUNDS
Most people describe me as introverted and a little stand-offish when they first meet me.
I dislike drawing attention to myself and find public speaking extremely confronting.
Whilst I’ve generally received positive comments about presentations that I’ve conducted,
the discomfort and fear I experience have not abated.
A few weeks ago Sheila played the “Communication” sounds for me.
Two weeks later I was approached to be interviewed for a promotional
DVD for a community agency that I work for. I happily agreed to participate.
The feedback I received from my supervisor and the film crew was really positive.
Whilst I experienced a little nervousness at the beginning of the day, this quickly
shifted and I felt comfortable about speaking and being taped. When my
supervisor spoke about having a presentation evening to view the DVD I didn’t feel phased about that either.
The ‘Communication’ sound have achieved more than improving my communication
skills and increasing my comfort in being in group situations. I feel more confident
and at peace with myself, and my interactions, whether with friends or strangers,
seem to be easier and more relaxed. I feel a lot more connected to other people and to life in general
Sheila has a depth of knowledge that is truly impressive.
Her practical experience and life experience combined with her caring approach
and sense of humility provide an optimal environment for facilitating transformation.
I have no hesitation in recommending Sheila to friends and family as the results
I’ve personally experienced have been life changing.
Lillian C.
My daughter was bullied at school in kindy - which affected her forming friendships
plus her personality changed from sweet and outgoing to more introverted and
she sort of had a ‘wall’ around her when meeting people - she also wouldn’t listen to
what was being said and became quite stubborn. Since Sheila has played the children’s behaviour and communication sounds for her, she has become calmer, much, much, louder and happier and is returning to her old sweet self.
Plus, she had an invitation to a birthday party last weekend!!
Thank you, I am amazed that something so simple can have such a great effect.
Susan M.
Since I have been listening to Sheila’s sounds with specific purpose, I have been feeling far clearer in my mind about my personal action and dealings, business relationships and expected outcomes.
Mark S.
“After spending 6 months and $20,000 on physical therapy and treatments
for injuries sustained from a car accident that were never healed, 2 hours and
$200 later with Sheila Kennedy and I was able to play sports again after 5 years.
I highly recommend Sheila to anyone who wants results above all else.”
Dan
Company Director
Sheila’s healing sounds have changed my life. We all have memories of
our past, some great and some not so great.
Working at a sub-conscious level I had done a lot of healing myself, however
there was a piece of my past I could not forget. I had forgiven but no
matter how much I tried to move on I found myself always recalling this
memory.
When I discussed this with Sheila she played the Retain Memory sounds, and
to my amazement and relief this negative memory has been erased.
Healing, forgiving and letting go of negative experiences enables us all to
take our learning and move forward.
Sheilas sounds work at an even deeper level, erasing memories that can be
attached to the past. Sometimes we believe that holding onto these memories
is a form of protection, however all we are really doing is blocking the
real inner self from shinning.
Thank-you Sheila, now I am able to shine from the inside again.
Debbie C
I am writing to thank you very much for the work you have done on my family and I.
Especially on my daughter Jaimee. When Jaimee came to you she was really
struggling with her reading and school work in general. It has now been nearly three months and her concentration and reading has improved considerably. We have also noticed huge improvements in her energy levels and general well being.
This has had a huge impact on my family relationships and my general outlook on life.
Once again I would like to thank you for all your help and
I will be recommending you to all my friends.
Gavin W.
Dear Sheila,
Just a short note to express my gratitude to you for taking the
time to try to make a difference in my life. For travelling to see me, to encourage me,
to show me that beautiful warmth that you emit. Its hard to say meaningful things,
the words that come to mind usually find themselves falling short of the feelings
that I’d like to share and the things I’d like to say, but I want you to know that
“thanks” is one emotion that I take seriously and that it flows directly from my heart.
Thank You,
From My Heart to Yours
Max R.
