Blame Shame and Guilt

Sound Number 57

Description of sound

The Blame Shame and Guilt sounds were developed to work with the deeper issues of the psyche and the emotional levels of holding onto or accepting the many levels of Blame Shame and Guilt which may have been passed on through the Genetic Ancestral line, as well as the many issues we “take on board” during our current life or existence in this life.

Often we carry thoughts, feelings, and emotions of things which we feel are “our fault” which may have long gone from the minds of others, or we are constantly reminded often by well meaning family and friends of our “short comings” further exacerbating the issues we feel of Blame, Shame and Guilt.

Sound Length 4.37 minutes

 

How this sound came about

Again many of my clients presented with issues of not having lived up to the expectations of the “family” in as far as career, life partner, marrying or not, and often just simple everyday issues and choices that they carried issues of Blame, Shame and Guilt about.

These brought me to looking at my own life and after much discussion with Susan we asked for a set of sounds to be given to us deal with these issues.

These are extremely powerful sounds and were originally developed as Practitioner only, however Susan in her infinite wisdom, a very wise lady is my colleague and friend recommended that we should also make them available through the Academy site, and we were given a “shorter” set of sounds for that specific purpose.

Comment from Susan - My comment with regard to the last sound was to do with self flagellation.  And here it is, one of the best, most used tools of self flagellation that we can inflict upon ourselves.  Indeed, some of us are so expert at this particular skill, that we can also take on board other people’s problems and allow them to become our own or at least punish ourselves as if they were our own.  If this is you, or you have a situation in your life that you are actively punishing yourself for, step back from it.  We all make mistakes from time to time - it is a very under rated way of learning.  For myself, I have found that some of my greatest learnings have come from my biggest mistakes and while I strive to learn in easier ways - sometimes I am very adept at ignoring the ‘gentle signals’ that I receive urging me to change course - and therefore avoid making those large mistakes in the first place.

Playing this sound in conjunction with forgiveness and clearing can assist a lot in releasing those feelings of blame, shame and guilt.  Also, I would suggest that you play hearing clearly or seeing clearly if you are adept at ignoring those gentle messages that are guiding you toward change - easier change.  I have also found that sometimes genetic and ancestral memory can play a huge role in shame and blame and guilt. If this is your issue, then perhaps a sounds from source session within the membership site or a one on one may be appropriate.

 

Availability of this sound

Available through The Healing Sounds Academy membership site in a shortened version or through a Sounds from Source practitioner appointment.

Combinations of use with other sounds

Self Acceptance, Deserving, Unworthiness Releasing Limitations, Freedom, Releasing Blockages.

 

     

 

 

 

       

 

 

 

ABUNDANCE SOUNDS

 

I had a couple of really interesting occurrences after the “Abundance” sounds were played. 

Two weeks later I received a gift of $500.  Three weeks after this I was presented with $5000. 

My bank account is a lot healthier but I have also experienced abundance in other forms.

I feel an immense sense of gratitude and appreciation for the experiences that life presents

and for the wonderful people in my life.

 

 

MOVEMENT SOUNDS

 

I have had a drivers licence for 10 years and the feeling of anxiety that I experience

whenever I drive has been with me for the entire time I’ve been driving.  In fact, I had put

off getting my drivers licence for years because of this very fear.

 

After Sheila played the “Movement” sounds for me I found that the feelings of anxiety

and trepidation that I usually feel when I get into a car were completely absent. 

On the same evening, I had gotten myself completely lost whilst driving. 

The feelings of anxiety and fear that would normally have presented in this situation weren’t there at all.

 

 

COMMUNICATION SOUNDS

 

Most people describe me as introverted and a little stand-offish when they first meet me. 

I dislike drawing attention to myself and find public speaking extremely confronting. 

Whilst I’ve generally received positive comments about presentations that I’ve conducted,

 the discomfort and fear I experience have not abated. 

 

A few weeks ago Sheila played the “Communication” sounds for me. 

Two weeks later I was approached to be interviewed for a promotional

 DVD for a community agency that I work for.  I happily agreed to participate.

 

The feedback I received from my supervisor and the film crew was really positive. 

Whilst I experienced a little nervousness at the beginning of the day, this quickly

shifted and I felt comfortable about speaking and being taped.  When my

supervisor spoke about having a presentation evening to view the DVD I didn’t feel phased about that either.

 

The ‘Communication’ sound have achieved more than improving my communication

skills and increasing my comfort in being in group situations.  I feel more confident

and at peace with myself, and my interactions, whether with friends or strangers,

seem to be easier and more relaxed.  I feel a lot more connected to other people and to life in general 

 

Sheila has a depth of knowledge that is truly impressive.  

Her practical experience and life experience combined with her caring approach

and sense of humility provide an optimal environment for facilitating transformation.

I have no hesitation in recommending Sheila to friends and family as the results

I’ve personally experienced have been life changing. 

 

Lillian C.

 

 

My daughter was bullied at school in kindy - which affected her forming friendships

plus her personality changed from sweet and outgoing to more introverted and

she sort of had a ‘wall’ around her when meeting people - she also wouldn’t listen to

what was being said and became quite stubborn. Since Sheila has played the children’s behaviour  and communication sounds for her, she has become calmer, much, much, louder and happier and is returning to her old sweet self. 

Plus, she had an invitation to a birthday party last weekend!!

Thank you, I am amazed that something so simple can have such a great effect.

 

Susan M.

 

 

Since I have been listening to Sheila’s sounds with specific purpose, I have been feeling far clearer in my mind about my personal action and dealings, business relationships and expected outcomes.

 

Mark S.

 

 

“After spending 6 months and $20,000 on physical therapy and treatments

for injuries sustained from a car accident that were never healed, 2 hours and

$200 later with Sheila Kennedy and I was able to play sports again after 5 years.

I highly recommend Sheila to anyone who wants results above all else.”

 

Dan

Company Director

 

 

Sheila’s healing sounds have changed my life. We all have memories of

our past, some great and some not so great.

 

Working at a sub-conscious level I had done a lot of healing myself, however

there was a piece of my past I could not forget.  I had forgiven but no

matter how much I tried to move on I found myself always recalling this

memory.

 

When I discussed this with Sheila she played the Retain Memory sounds, and

to my amazement and relief this negative memory has been erased.

 

Healing, forgiving and letting go of negative experiences enables us all to

take our learning and move forward.

 

Sheilas sounds work at an even deeper level, erasing memories that can be

attached to the past. Sometimes we believe that holding onto these memories

is a form of protection, however all we are really doing is blocking the

real inner self from shinning.

 

Thank-you Sheila, now I am able to shine from the inside again.

 

Debbie C

 

 

I am writing to thank you very much for the work you have done on my family and I.

Especially on my daughter Jaimee. When Jaimee came to you she was really

struggling with her reading and school work in general. It has now been nearly three months and her concentration and reading has improved considerably. We have also noticed huge improvements in her energy levels and general well being.

This has had a huge impact on my family relationships and my general outlook on life.

Once again I would like to thank you for all your help and

I will be recommending you to all my friends.

 

 

Gavin W.

Melbourne

 

Dear Sheila,

Just a short note to express my gratitude to you for taking the

time to try to make a difference in my life. For travelling to see me, to encourage me,

to show me that beautiful warmth that you emit. Its hard to say meaningful things,

the words that come to mind usually find themselves falling short of the feelings

that I’d like to share and the things I’d like to say, but I want you to know that

“thanks” is one emotion that I take seriously and that it flows directly from my heart.

 

Thank You, 

From My Heart to Yours

 

Max R.