Abuse

 Sound Number 76

 Description of sound

Following close on the heels of the Abandonment sounds, the program for  Abuse which fits very well with the  abandonment program came about through a request from a client of “can you do something about the issues, memories  and feelings of expectation of abuse”.

Again these incredibly powerful sounds flow back down the time line of life and release and negate issues, thoughts, feelings and fears of abuse on many levels.

We may never have experienced abuse, yet have an expectation of having  it in our lives.

And abuse comes in many forms, the withdrawing of love is one form which many people suffer from without ever recognising it as abuse.

Sound Length 8.11minutes

 

How this sound came about

Although this sound came about through the request of a client it was an issue which had long been familiar to me. Growing up in a cold sterile and emotionally unloving family environment, yet one which provided the best that money could buy, I learnt early not to expect  love.

Then when I found myself in an incredibly physically, mentally, and emotionally abusive relationship during my twenties, I accepted the excuses that it was all “my fault” as I didn’t know any other way.

When I commented to one of my younger sisters some years ago that we had come from what could be described as an “abusive family” she was horrified and has hardly spoken to me since.

To another younger sister I can comment that, “considering the family environment we grew up in it’s a wonder that we are as nice as we are”. To which she agrees.   So thanks Alison, for being my sister.

Comment from Susan - Since working with the sounds, I now realise the subtleties of abuse and again a lot of abuse is derived from the way in which a person perceives a situation.  This is particularly evident in family or work situations, whereby the same situation or circumstance can provide vastly different reactions to the seemingly same event.  I have also noticed the difference in perceptions between the different generations to certain social issues or just in the way we interact with one another today.  What might pass for perfectly acceptable behaviour and language in one group can easily hurt and offend another - and can be sometimes seen as a type of abuse.  I guess my point is, these more subtle perceptions of abuse are very much in the eye of the beholder and so must be dealt with from their perspective.  Usually the sounds that come up in tandem with this sound are worthiness, deserving, self acceptance, blame shame and guilt and grief and loss.  Even the most seemingly minor of incidents can profoundly affect an individual depending upon their state and their vulnerability at the time.  Something to keep in mind when interacting with people I think, choose your moment when discussing things of a sensitive nature and be ever mindful of the phrase 'timing is everything'. 

 

Availability of this sound

Available through a trained The Sounds from Source practitioner consultation 

Combinations of use with other sounds

Balance, Meridian, Meridian Memory Blockages, Genetic Memory, Genetic Blueprint, Practitioner Intention Statements, Freedom, Unworthiness, Deserving, Self Acceptance, Trust and Faith, Abandonment, Encodement Grids, Encodement Survival, Conceptual Blueprint.

 

ABUNDANCE SOUNDS

 

I had a couple of really interesting occurrences after the “Abundance” sounds were played. 

Two weeks later I received a gift of $500.  Three weeks after this I was presented with $5000. 

My bank account is a lot healthier but I have also experienced abundance in other forms.

I feel an immense sense of gratitude and appreciation for the experiences that life presents

and for the wonderful people in my life.

 

 

MOVEMENT SOUNDS

 

I have had a drivers licence for 10 years and the feeling of anxiety that I experience

whenever I drive has been with me for the entire time I’ve been driving.  In fact, I had put

off getting my drivers licence for years because of this very fear.

 

After Sheila played the “Movement” sounds for me I found that the feelings of anxiety

and trepidation that I usually feel when I get into a car were completely absent. 

On the same evening, I had gotten myself completely lost whilst driving. 

The feelings of anxiety and fear that would normally have presented in this situation weren’t there at all.

 

 

COMMUNICATION SOUNDS

 

Most people describe me as introverted and a little stand-offish when they first meet me. 

I dislike drawing attention to myself and find public speaking extremely confronting. 

Whilst I’ve generally received positive comments about presentations that I’ve conducted,

 the discomfort and fear I experience have not abated. 

 

A few weeks ago Sheila played the “Communication” sounds for me. 

Two weeks later I was approached to be interviewed for a promotional

 DVD for a community agency that I work for.  I happily agreed to participate.

 

The feedback I received from my supervisor and the film crew was really positive. 

Whilst I experienced a little nervousness at the beginning of the day, this quickly

shifted and I felt comfortable about speaking and being taped.  When my

supervisor spoke about having a presentation evening to view the DVD I didn’t feel phased about that either.

 

The ‘Communication’ sound have achieved more than improving my communication

skills and increasing my comfort in being in group situations.  I feel more confident

and at peace with myself, and my interactions, whether with friends or strangers,

seem to be easier and more relaxed.  I feel a lot more connected to other people and to life in general 

 

Sheila has a depth of knowledge that is truly impressive.  

Her practical experience and life experience combined with her caring approach

and sense of humility provide an optimal environment for facilitating transformation.

I have no hesitation in recommending Sheila to friends and family as the results

I’ve personally experienced have been life changing. 

 

Lillian C.

 

 

My daughter was bullied at school in kindy - which affected her forming friendships

plus her personality changed from sweet and outgoing to more introverted and

she sort of had a ‘wall’ around her when meeting people - she also wouldn’t listen to

what was being said and became quite stubborn. Since Sheila has played the children’s behaviour  and communication sounds for her, she has become calmer, much, much, louder and happier and is returning to her old sweet self. 

Plus, she had an invitation to a birthday party last weekend!!

Thank you, I am amazed that something so simple can have such a great effect.

 

Susan M.

 

 

Since I have been listening to Sheila’s sounds with specific purpose, I have been feeling far clearer in my mind about my personal action and dealings, business relationships and expected outcomes.

 

Mark S.

 

 

“After spending 6 months and $20,000 on physical therapy and treatments

for injuries sustained from a car accident that were never healed, 2 hours and

$200 later with Sheila Kennedy and I was able to play sports again after 5 years.

I highly recommend Sheila to anyone who wants results above all else.”

 

Dan

Company Director

 

 

Sheila’s healing sounds have changed my life. We all have memories of

our past, some great and some not so great.

 

Working at a sub-conscious level I had done a lot of healing myself, however

there was a piece of my past I could not forget.  I had forgiven but no

matter how much I tried to move on I found myself always recalling this

memory.

 

When I discussed this with Sheila she played the Retain Memory sounds, and

to my amazement and relief this negative memory has been erased.

 

Healing, forgiving and letting go of negative experiences enables us all to

take our learning and move forward.

 

Sheilas sounds work at an even deeper level, erasing memories that can be

attached to the past. Sometimes we believe that holding onto these memories

is a form of protection, however all we are really doing is blocking the

real inner self from shinning.

 

Thank-you Sheila, now I am able to shine from the inside again.

 

Debbie C

 

 

I am writing to thank you very much for the work you have done on my family and I.

Especially on my daughter Jaimee. When Jaimee came to you she was really

struggling with her reading and school work in general. It has now been nearly three months and her concentration and reading has improved considerably. We have also noticed huge improvements in her energy levels and general well being.

This has had a huge impact on my family relationships and my general outlook on life.

Once again I would like to thank you for all your help and

I will be recommending you to all my friends.

 

 

Gavin W.

Melbourne

 

Dear Sheila,

Just a short note to express my gratitude to you for taking the

time to try to make a difference in my life. For travelling to see me, to encourage me,

to show me that beautiful warmth that you emit. Its hard to say meaningful things,

the words that come to mind usually find themselves falling short of the feelings

that I’d like to share and the things I’d like to say, but I want you to know that

“thanks” is one emotion that I take seriously and that it flows directly from my heart.

 

Thank You, 

From My Heart to Yours

 

Max R.