81. Bonding With Baby
Sound Number 81
Description of sound
“Doesn’t every Mother bond with her baby”?
I have been asked, and “why would you want sounds for that”?
As a mother of 5 of my own children, as well as 4 extra’s rather than “step children” I am very aware that our relationship with our children is different in each case.
Many mother’s due to prolonged birth trauma, and elective surgery etc often feel disconnected from their new baby, and even at times resentful of the child.
Fathers too often have difficultly “bonding” with this new little “person” in their lives.
These gentle sounds are especially suitable for blended and adoptive families and work to establish the connection between the child / children and its parent or parents.
Sound Length 6.39 minutes
How this sound came about
I have worked a good deal with new parents, as well as being a parent to both my own five children and the numerous ‘extra’ children in my life. Many times I was aware of the levels of ‘disconnection’ between the new parent and their child, this disconnection could be from things as simple as a stressful or unplanned pregnancy, through to a difficult or in many instances caesarean birth.
We all bond differently and individually with our children, and they with us.
My son commenting on his youngest daughter just a week old a few days ago, informed me that ‘she liked him more than her mother, as she went to sleep on his chest every time he picked her up if she was crying’, and that she didn’t do that for her mother.
My daughter in law confirmed this and commented that she ‘looks more like her father also’ than does their previous child. I wrote this early in 2008, My delightful grandaughter is still a ‘Daddy’s girl’ and seldom far from his side.
One of my older children many years ago spoke to me about his younger brother mentioned above with the comment “Chriss really loves you doesnt he” and when I reminded him that all of my children love me he replied ’Yes of course we do, but Chriss, theres just some thing different, he really loves you’.
Chriss was my child that should never have been, Doctor’s recommended a therapeutic abortion at 7 months, and he struggled through his early life just to stay alive. He is now 36, with children and grandchildren of his own and yes, we do have a special bond.
Description of sound
“Doesn’t every Mother bond with her baby”?
I have been asked, and “why would you want sounds for that”?
As a mother of 5 of my own children, as well as 4 extra’s rather than “step children” I am very aware that our relationship with our children is different in each case.
Many mother’s due to prolonged birth trauma, and elective surgery etc often feel disconnected from their new baby, and even at times resentful of the child.
Fathers too often have difficultly “bonding” with this new little “person” in their lives.
These gentle sounds are especially suitable for blended and adoptive families and work to establish the connection between the child / children and its parent or parents.
Sound Length 6.39 minutes
How this sound came about
I have worked a good deal with new parents, as well as being a parent to both my own five children and the numerous ‘extra’ children in my life. Many times I was aware of the levels of ‘disconnection’ between the new parent and their child, this disconnection could be from things as simple as a stressful or unplanned pregnancy, through to a difficult or in many instances caesarean birth.
We all bond differently and individually with our children, and they with us.
My son commenting on his youngest daughter just a week old a few days ago, informed me that ‘she liked him more than her mother, as she went to sleep on his chest every time he picked her up if she was crying’, and that she didn’t do that for her mother.
My daughter in law confirmed this and commented that she ‘looks more like her father also’ than does their previous child. I wrote this early in 2008, My delightful grandaughter is still a ‘Daddy’s girl’ and seldom far from his side.
One of my older children many years ago spoke to me about his younger brother mentioned above with the comment “Chriss really loves you doesnt he” and when I reminded him that all of my children love me he replied ’Yes of course we do, but Chriss, theres just some thing different, he really loves you’.
Chriss was my child that should never have been, Doctor’s recommended a therapeutic abortion at 7 months, and he struggled through his early life just to stay alive. He is now 36, with children and grandchildren of his own and yes, we do have a special bond.
81. Bonding With Baby
Comment from Susan – Sometimes mothers do find it difficult to bond with their babies, through no fault of their own and boy – do we beat ourselves up over it or what. Life doesn’t always run to the cosy patterns that we expect or would like.
This sound will help you relax and allow yourself to bond with your baby – remember each of your children is different and each bonding is different. I find that a lot of people beat themselves up unnecessarily over the fact that they may bond more with one child than another – there may be lots of reasons, but here’s one.
If you accept that you exist in other dimensions or have had past lives and so on, sometimes the reason for bonding seemingly more with one child is simply because you have more familiarity with them – or in other words – you have met before many, many times.
For others – this may be the beginning of a tremendous relationship. Accept what you feel, its not wrong, its just a reflection of what is happening now.
This sound will help ease the pathway to bonding more with your child. I use this sound a lot for business people, if you have a business, bonding with it may be a good idea, this will enable you to view the business from another perspective and may help with insights as to what is good for yourself and your business.
It is also part of the New Parents pack.
Combinations of use with other sounds
Balance, Meridian, Meridian Memory Blockages, Genetic Memory, Genetic Blueprint, Practitioner Intention Statements, Freedom, Unworthiness, Deserving, Self Acceptance, Trust and Faith, Acceptance, Birth Trauma, Abandonment, Abuse, Accepting Love
This sound will help you relax and allow yourself to bond with your baby – remember each of your children is different and each bonding is different. I find that a lot of people beat themselves up unnecessarily over the fact that they may bond more with one child than another – there may be lots of reasons, but here’s one.
If you accept that you exist in other dimensions or have had past lives and so on, sometimes the reason for bonding seemingly more with one child is simply because you have more familiarity with them – or in other words – you have met before many, many times.
For others – this may be the beginning of a tremendous relationship. Accept what you feel, its not wrong, its just a reflection of what is happening now.
This sound will help ease the pathway to bonding more with your child. I use this sound a lot for business people, if you have a business, bonding with it may be a good idea, this will enable you to view the business from another perspective and may help with insights as to what is good for yourself and your business.
It is also part of the New Parents pack.
Combinations of use with other sounds
Balance, Meridian, Meridian Memory Blockages, Genetic Memory, Genetic Blueprint, Practitioner Intention Statements, Freedom, Unworthiness, Deserving, Self Acceptance, Trust and Faith, Acceptance, Birth Trauma, Abandonment, Abuse, Accepting Love