219. Independence
Sound Number 219
Description of sound
The Independence sound was one which as many of the Sounds from Source sounds do appeared because it was required, it followed sound No 218 Dependence as a away of being able to create an additional level of balance and support once the issues of Dependence had been addressed
The Independence sounds work with assisting you to creating your own levels of independence without needing or requiring to lean on another or others or on a situation or circumstance and of activating your own levels of personal independence.
Sound Length 1.28 minutes
How this sound came about
Often the areas that the specific sounds address are presented to us as we have grown and developed. In this instance they were to assist and address the levels of Independence once the areas of dependence or reliance that had shown up in Susan’s and my lives in a variety of ways had been released
While dependence or dependant behaviours which can also be described as someone exhibiting issues of neediness, helplessness, defencelessness, vulnerability, a need for support or some one to cling to for example be some thing that we can assimilate and assist with in the short term it can become extremely debilitating in the long term.
Although we may be willing to be that ‘support person’ for a period of time it is often unhealthy for the other person or even detrimental to ourselves to allow the situation to continue indefinitely.
Gently withdrawing such support or attempting to assist the other person to be more self sufficient or independent can often lead to accusations of not caring, of not being supportive and at times acrimonious or over reactive behaviours and displays of grieving and loss.
I being able to facilitate the letting go of a dependence and replacing it with a more independent attitude and way of adjusting, we are I believe assisting that person to live their own life more fully.
As Susan has said in the past, all of the sounds have come about from our own needs as we go along, or from viewing what clients and friends require and then discussing such with each other and Sounds From Source themselves. I never tire of this ‘work’ – connecting and working with Sounds From Source is as thrilling for me today as it was when we were first contacted back in 2004.
Description of sound
The Independence sound was one which as many of the Sounds from Source sounds do appeared because it was required, it followed sound No 218 Dependence as a away of being able to create an additional level of balance and support once the issues of Dependence had been addressed
The Independence sounds work with assisting you to creating your own levels of independence without needing or requiring to lean on another or others or on a situation or circumstance and of activating your own levels of personal independence.
Sound Length 1.28 minutes
How this sound came about
Often the areas that the specific sounds address are presented to us as we have grown and developed. In this instance they were to assist and address the levels of Independence once the areas of dependence or reliance that had shown up in Susan’s and my lives in a variety of ways had been released
While dependence or dependant behaviours which can also be described as someone exhibiting issues of neediness, helplessness, defencelessness, vulnerability, a need for support or some one to cling to for example be some thing that we can assimilate and assist with in the short term it can become extremely debilitating in the long term.
Although we may be willing to be that ‘support person’ for a period of time it is often unhealthy for the other person or even detrimental to ourselves to allow the situation to continue indefinitely.
Gently withdrawing such support or attempting to assist the other person to be more self sufficient or independent can often lead to accusations of not caring, of not being supportive and at times acrimonious or over reactive behaviours and displays of grieving and loss.
I being able to facilitate the letting go of a dependence and replacing it with a more independent attitude and way of adjusting, we are I believe assisting that person to live their own life more fully.
As Susan has said in the past, all of the sounds have come about from our own needs as we go along, or from viewing what clients and friends require and then discussing such with each other and Sounds From Source themselves. I never tire of this ‘work’ – connecting and working with Sounds From Source is as thrilling for me today as it was when we were first contacted back in 2004.
Comment by Susan – Independence. What a wonderful word – so empowering and loaded with great optimism for the now and for the future. And sometimes difficult to adapt to or embody the potential of…
This sound is great to assist with making adjustments whether it be one sided or many sided. Case in point, a mother (gee I wonder who that can be?) regaining her own independence and her offspring gaining their own – and having a happy adjustment all round while the changes are subtly being made for the good of all. Which of course, is as it should be.
Use with other sounds
Dependence, Blame Shame and Guilt, Grief and Loss, Responsibility, Retained Memories, Negative Influences, Unworthiness, Taking Action, Fear, Deserving Responsibility
This sound is great to assist with making adjustments whether it be one sided or many sided. Case in point, a mother (gee I wonder who that can be?) regaining her own independence and her offspring gaining their own – and having a happy adjustment all round while the changes are subtly being made for the good of all. Which of course, is as it should be.
Use with other sounds
Dependence, Blame Shame and Guilt, Grief and Loss, Responsibility, Retained Memories, Negative Influences, Unworthiness, Taking Action, Fear, Deserving Responsibility